When angry, count ten, before you speak; if very angry, an hundred.
The quotation advises creating a deliberate pause between feeling anger and speaking. Counting provides a simple way to delay an immediate reaction, allowing strong emotion to subside before words are chosen. The greater the anger, the longer the suggested pause. Its practical purpose is to reduce the risk of saying something impulsive that may later be regretted or worsen a disagreement.
Jefferson included the maxim among his practical rules for conduct in his letter to Thomas Jefferson Smith. In that setting, it forms part of broader advice about self-discipline and judgement in everyday life. The emphasis is not on denying anger, but on controlling the response to it. By separating emotion from immediate action, the saying presents restraint as a means of preserving clearer judgement and more measured communication.
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