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Most marriages don’t add two people together. They subtract one from the other.
Ian Fleming Diamonds Are Forever · 1956

Bond expresses a sceptical view of marriage, suggesting that partnership can diminish rather than strengthen the individuals involved. His metaphor of addition and subtraction presents marriage as a question of whether two people preserve and develop their separate identities or whether one person’s character, freedom or ambitions are reduced by the relationship.

The wider context connects this view to Bond’s preference for self-reliance. He believes he can manage life better alone, so marriage appears to him as a potential constraint rather than a source of mutual support. The statement therefore reveals as much about Bond’s attitude towards independence as it does about marriage itself.

The quotation is not presented as an objective account of relationships. Instead, it offers a deliberately pessimistic perspective on partnership and raises a broader question about whether close relationships allow both people to flourish without requiring one to surrender too much of their individuality.

Full quotation

“I [James Bond] expect because I think I can handle life better on my own. Most marriages don’t add two people together. They subtract one from the other.”

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