Quotation Philosophy Ethics
It is not fair to ask of others what you are not willing to do yourself.
Eleanor Roosevelt My Day · 1935-1962

Roosevelt expresses a principle of fairness: people should not impose duties, sacrifices or standards on others that they would refuse to accept themselves. The quotation links authority with personal responsibility, suggesting that expectations carry greater legitimacy when the person making them is prepared to meet the same demands.

The idea also applies to leadership and everyday relationships. A manager asking employees to make an exceptional effort, a public figure calling for sacrifice, or an individual expecting particular behaviour from friends or family can all be judged against the same standard of consistency. Roosevelt’s formulation does not mean that every role must involve identical responsibilities; different positions may reasonably require different tasks. Its central concern is hypocrisy and unequal expectations. The quotation therefore presents fairness as a matter of applying comparable standards to oneself and to others, particularly when asking people to undertake something difficult, inconvenient or demanding.

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