A friend is a person with whom I may be sincere.
Emerson defines friendship through the freedom to be sincere. A true friend is someone before whom a person does not need to maintain appearances, conceal important thoughts or shape every word to secure approval. Sincerity therefore becomes a sign of trust: the relationship is strong enough to allow honesty without constant fear of rejection or misunderstanding.
Within Friendship, the statement reflects Emerson’s broader view that close relationships should be grounded in mutual respect and independence. Friendship is not based simply on familiarity or frequent contact, but on the quality of communication between two people. The ability to speak candidly allows each person to be known more fully and can make the relationship a source of reflection and growth. Emerson therefore presents sincerity not as bluntness for its own sake, but as an expression of confidence, openness and genuine regard.