Quotation Life Character
I desire that there may be as many different persons in the world as possible; but I would have each one be very careful to find out and pursue his own way, and not his father’s or his mother’s or his neighbor’s instead. The youth may build or plant or sail, only let him not be hindered from doing that which he tells me he would like to do.
Henry David Thoreau Walden · 1849

Thoreau argues that people should be encouraged to develop distinct lives rather than simply reproduce the choices of parents, neighbours or other admired figures. Individual difference is presented as something valuable, provided that each person makes a serious effort to discover what genuinely suits their abilities, interests and convictions.

In the wider passage from Walden, Thoreau even warns against imitating his own way of life. His experiment at Walden is not offered as a universal model, but as an example of pursuing a deliberately chosen course. The references to building, planting and sailing stress that there is no single correct occupation or lifestyle. What matters is preserving the freedom to follow a direction that is genuinely one’s own. The quote therefore links individuality with responsibility: personal freedom requires both resisting inherited expectations and making thoughtful choices about how to live.

Full quotation

“One young man of my acquaintance, who has inherited some acres, told me that he thought he should live as I did, if he had the means. I would not have any one adopt my mode of living on any account; for, beside that before he has fairly learned it I may have found out another for myself, I desire that there may be as many different persons in the world as possible; but I would have each one be very careful to find out and pursue his own way, and not his father’s or his mother’s or his neighbor’s instead. The youth may build or plant or sail, only let him not be hindered from doing that which he tells me he would like to do. It is by a mathematical point only that we are wise, as the sailor or the fugitive slave keeps the polestar in his eye; but that is sufficient guidance for all our life. We may not arrive at our port within a calculable period, but we would preserve the true course.”

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